am I bisexual?

Question

I currently have a boyfriend who I've been with for 2 years. I've always had boyfriends. For the past year or so, I've been really attracted to women. I want to explore and be with a girl to see if I am. But I'm scared if I do find out I'm more attracted to girls he won't want anything to do with me anymore. I don't even like having sex with him anymore bc it's not what I want. Someone help please 😭

Answer

I think you need to talk to him about what you're feeling. If he does leave you because of your blossoming sexuality then so be it. The way you're living now is limited. You want to explore and figure out this part of yourself and that's ok. But you also have to know that the cost of that might be your current relationship. You say you don't enjoy sex with him anymore. Quite frankly, that sounds like the beginning of the end. Not to say it has to be but it sounds like it. Talk to him and see if you can come up with a solution together. If not, you have a choice to make: continue to ignore that part of yourself or have some self discovery. Either way someone may not end up happy but you have to ask yourself if it's better to know or not to know. Best wishes, gurl! I hope everything works out for you in the end  ❤

Answer

I felt the same way you do a few years ago. I knew that I was physically attracted to women but I didn't ever think that I wanted to date a girl, just explore. It wasn't until I met my ex that I had an emotional connection with a girl and that's when I started to identify as bisexual, before then I just considered myself as bi-curious. It's perfectly fine to be attracted to women and it doesn't necessarily mean that you're bisexual. Whatever you do, don't think that there is something wing with you or that you should smother your feelings but be honest with your boyfriend.

Answer

I know the feeling just don't know what to do 😓

am I bisexual?

The Top Baby Tracker App: Embrace New Beginnings with Tender Care

The Top Fertility Tracker App: Your Path to Achieving Pregnancy

The Top Pregnancy App: Nurturing Your Journey to Motherhood

The Top Period Tracker for Empowering Your Menstrual Health Journey