cd 35

So... my last period was Jan 1st! I'm usually spot on with my period, if there is a fluctuation it's a day or two max! So usually around 29-31 days..But here it is.. CD 35 no sign of AF no pregnancy symptoms either (and keep getting BFNs ☹️) earlier in my cycle I had spotting around CD12 but it lasted until CD 16. Now I'm just confused, thinking maybe the spotting pushed my period back.. which therefore means I ovulated on a different day than I thought maybe even by a week, and im now discouraged as we weren't avtively trying during that time.. as I thought I was already in my TWW. 😏 I have read people do get late hpt BFPs.. but like I said we weren't tryinggg as much as we should have if my window was moved ☹️at this point I just want Af to start, so I can move on and start again! 😑 I mean.. a BFP would be ideal though! lol but I'm not getting my hopes up after seeing many, many BFNs on a variety of tests. 😞 anybody experience anything remotely similar? lol I never have wanted AF to come so bad in my life. Lol