How Many Children Would Your Current Partner/Significant Other/Spouse Have Had Abortion or Miscarriage NOT Taken Place?

This question has nothing to do with what your position is about abortion. I am just asking had an abortion (or miscarriage) not occurred, how many kids might your other half have prior to you.

I was very shocked to learn my husband may have had up to 7 other kids out there before me and the child he and I have now. With the exception of 1 out of those 7, the others did not occur due to 4 abortions and 2 miscarriages. I am still trying to decide personally about how I feel that my husband fathered so many kids before meeting me. I honestly don't know what to make of it....so I pose this question to you all.

How have you dealt with the number of children your mate already has before having met you?