Not feeling attractive

So my husban doesn't make me feel like he's attracted to me. He doesn't tell me I'm pretty or I look nice but let another women walk by and he will comment on how attractive she is. He would say things like "wow she's hot" "she has a nice ass" or "look at them titties" one that annoys the shit out of me "damn she is looking good look momma dont you think so?" and if I say no he will say "you think you look better than her?" I'm like what the actual fuck. I may not look like I did when we first started dating but I gave birth to your daughter and I carried your son for 15 weeks... And you want to sit there and tell me another woman is more attractive than I am?? Its hard to feel beautiful after you have a baby and it's hard to feel beautiful after a miscarriage as well.... My body will NEVER look like it did 2 years ago, hell even 7 years ago when we got together...

How do you deal with shit like that? Like I'm seriously to the point of telling him if he Likes the way they look so much then go be with them but when they dont put up with your bullshit or make sure everything in the house is done like you like it or they dont fold your clothes your favorite way or when they dont know how to cook food the way you like it and when they arent responsible enough to pay the bills take care of your dog and your child dont come running back because you has your chance and you blew it....that's how I feel sometimes. Like I feel Like I deserve someone who will make me feel like a queen because Lord knows I treat him like a king...

(in pic first 2 before my first pregnancy 2nd 2 during first pregnancy last 2 after my first pregnancy)