ER and no blood

I went in to the doctors and she told me i would go straight to the ER if i have pain with bleeding if no bleeding im fine  i wont get my first ultrasound until about a week or two ! The OB hasnt accepted my reffereal from the doctors but i dont feel right ! I need and ultrasound to see for my self and see everything is okay with my little one! What can i say to them or lie to get them to do an emergency utrasound at the ER?😬😳iwould  already be 8-9 weeks along