Do I end the relationship or not?

It's been 5 years. We have a child. Bought a home together (but his name not mine) have everything. (But his not mine) 
I have a problem with it, I bust my ass just as much as him for the things we have but are not mine and in fights he will hold it over me and tell me to get out of HIS house. I'm sick of busting my ass and have MY life going no where. He has fucked my credit so he can have his good for a house and cars and loans. I can't go to school cause his job comes first and there's no good schedule for my son around that. I can't work cause we don't want him in daycare. I do all the wife shit and I'm sick of it!
I asked him if he was going to marry me or not. He said he doesn't know. BECAUSE he needs to look out for himself. BECAUSE I COULD TAKE WHATS HIS! But he still wants to be together!? 
I'm floored and absolutely lost as to what to do next.. 
This just isn't what I wanted.