Would you be okay with your boyfriend going to a strip club with other guys?

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My boyfriend ended up at a strip club alone with friends, while he told me he was just at a bar. The next morning, however, he told me they went to a strip club.
Ive been to a strip club with him once and I dont think I wouldve cared so much if he told me upfront about it. But me not knowing until after the fact bothers me... What are your opinions?

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I wouldn't be mad that he went if he told me first but I would be mad that he lied about it

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My husband doesn't like to go unless I go with him 😂

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My husband thinks they are trashy and disgusting.

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My problem is I'm the one that always wants to go and he doesn't want to lol

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He probably didn't plan on going to a strip club. After hanging with the guys at the bar they probably all said he let's go to a strip club. He's not going to call you and be like hey can I go to a strip club? At least he told you the next day. I think you guys should talk about it if it bothers you but don't get mad. I don't think he planned it and just didn't tell you. If that was the case he wouldn't have mentioned it at all and kept it a secret.

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Nah, I'd be really fucking mad

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I wouldn't be happy at all. Why would I want him paying some random woman to rub her fanny in his face? No thanks, he can get that from me anytime he wants

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No not OK I don't like that idea

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If he had told me before hand, or if they were at the bar, and someone suggested it, I'd expect a call from him to let me know. And that's exactly what my boyfriend would do. He's so honest about everything and can't lie if he tried. We've been to the strippers a couple times together, it's not something that would bother me because I know my man. When he's at the strippers, he's enjoying drinks, not the women. He's actually pretty rude to them 😂

Would you be okay with your boyfriend going to a strip club with other guys?

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