But... Would you be mad if someone put you and your child on there ebt without you knowing. (MIL) I went to apply for me and my family i have to now wait until march 1st. I didn't give her my social or my sons. The lady on the phone during the interview said that she will be getting a letter in the mail and is putting me and my family in our own case, No bashing please everyone needs help sometimes i am 9 months pregnant. I am sure whenever she gets her letter in the mail telling her her benefits went down for march she will be mad, am i being selfish? She lives by herself. Me and my family are about to be a family of 4. She knows we struggle with food it would be differnt if she offerd every now and again to help but she hasn't and well i didnt know me nor ny son was on her ebt. My husband works and pays for everything while i get the benefit of being a stay at home mother. Am i selfish? i am worried about her being mad whenever she finds out i do not plan on telling her.