are you okay?

Question

No I'm not. So please stop asking. I just lost my 2nd baby. How else do you think I feel? I just wanna curl up in a bawl and cry... I just wanna know what's wrong with me and why I can't have my two babies back...

Answer

I understand so much! I've lost three babies- and I jsut want o float away people either ask if your ok or move on and don't understand how you could be outwardly ok but internal dying about the gaping whole in your life - this is the worst valentines day ever for me because I just feel so hopeless

Answer

I am so sorry for your losses. I am going through the same thing - I just found out I lost my second pregnancy. After four years of TTC and tens of thousands of dollars in fertility treatment, no, I am not okay. I am beyond devastated. I don't know if I can ever be the same person I was before I started TTC, when I was naive and thought I would have a baby quickly. But four years later, all I have to show is loss. I hope you ladies recover soon.

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Ugh I understand completely! I had a d&e today because on Thursday at 10w 3d I found out that my baby stopped growing at 9w. Anyways, I can't even tell you how many times I was asked by staff how I was? I know that they were just being nice but seriously, I'm about to have my baby taken from my body. I don't think anyone is okay after going through this.

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