Kinda Queer

I've always felt conflicted about considering myself bisexual. Because I prefer men to women, but I'm attracted to women as well. I don't feel like I'm queer enough to be a part of the LGBTQ+ community, especially as I'm marrying a man and "pass" very convincingly as straight. I know that it shouldn't matter. I'm bi even if I prefer men. But I have a hard time convincing myself.