I'm tired of people saying I'm mean 😭🙄😡

It seems like my female cousins who now hover around me because pregnant say i have an attitude and I'm thinking to myself..y'all don't even really know me that well to make such a remark. It's actually giving me an attitude just hearing them say it. They have never been pregnant and don't understand just cause I have a shorter temperament for things that require a simple answer or a quick responses doesn't mean im angry with them or at anyone! It's just my hormones. And if your overly sensitive just don't come around. It's frustrating and exhausting. I manage my emotions so I know it's not that serious but their remarks are hurting my feelings.