should I be worried?

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UPDATE: He came home 5 hours after he said he would. Claims he went with our friend to some guys house to check it out before she stayed there alone. I'm angry. He should have came home to his pregnant wife.

So my husband never does what he says. And tonight he lost his job, went to the bar and said he'd be home in a bit. I asked him to just come home and he wouldn't, said it would be just a bit. Well I just woke up 4 hours later and he is still not home. He went out to an apartment with a friend of ours who he once tried to have a relationship with.. I'm pregnant. Pissed. Sad. And just hurt. Does he even want me here?

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He lost his job... Went to spend money that definitely shouldn't have... And is over another broads house.... Nope he can stay outside... Just because you lose a job doesn't mean your life goes to shit and make bad choices.. why did he have to go to drink to make his life better..?... I would quit calling him and change the locks till he figures out how to be a good man to you

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WTF, at another ladies house that he likes, id be fuming, bags would be packed, you want to be at another females house, you do you, forget that he used to like her, the fact alone at another females house, drunk, upset, wtf is he doing there!

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Wtf?!?! I understand you don't want to be alone and pregnant. But living with him after this and acting like "it's ok" isn't fair to you either. I'd rather be alone and pregnant then be in a fake relationship "trying" to make it work when in reality it's not solving or changing anything. My heart aches for you and I'm so sorry you're going through this..

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I think your first sentence tells me everything I need to know. "My husband never does what he says." If this was a one-time situation, he could be given the benefit of the doubt. But it sounds like he does stuff like this all the time?

You deserve to be treated like you matter. Whether or not this relationship is worth staying in is entirely up to you. No one on here can make that decision for you. But at the end of the day you have to ask yourself-does he treat me like I'm important to him? Does he put our relationship first? Does his behavior reflect how much I matter to him?

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My pregnant  pissed  as$ would have gone to the girls house and picked him up.... His stress does not trump your stress, you're creating his child,  thats the last thing you need.

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I'd pack his shit up, get my hands on the money and have that bastard in tears by the time the weekend is over

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5 hours of "checking out" yeah right.

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He could just be struggling with losing his job and doesn't know how to cope. People can get really lost in themselves at times like those. He probably really loves and cares for you. Hope things get better.

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Hes probably stressed out losing his job 
Let him have a destress and let off some steam 
Hang in there

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