Is it weird for your SO to masturbate next to you while you're asleep or am I overreacting??

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I slept over at my SO's the night before Valentine's Day and I went to bed kinda early cause I had been at school all day. The next evening when we were out to dinner he told me he masturbated next to me while I was asleep. It kinda upset me and creeped me out. Am I overreacting??

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Honestly if my husband isn't in the mood I masterbate next to him when he's asleep, where else am I going to do it...

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Why are all your choices on the poll essentially the same? Yes you are overreacting. No it's not weird. Yes I would do it and I'm sure he would too. Get a grip.

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I find it weird that he told you about it..

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I actually woke up to my SO masturbating next to me and i was NOT happy!! You know why? Because the shit ass was masturbating like a fucking monster! Breathing heavy, shaking the bed and shit, shaking his arm right next to me! I was pissed because he woke me up with his violent masturbation! I woke up scared, he looked at me and i just yelled "GO TO THE BATHROOM GADAMMIT"

He was so into it he just nodded and ran to the bathroom! Geez, I have to work in the morning amd you're here being violent with yourself...😂😑

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The only reason i find it weird is why masturbate when your girl is right next to you, just wake her up 😂

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It's not weird to me, totally cool with him wacking his willy but it would make me mad. If I'm right there then why not just do me instead ya know? Even if I was sleeping he wakes me up eating chips, farting, gaming, snoring, harassing the cats ect. Why not just wake me up instead.

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I would be a little awked out.... i dont think ur over reacting! I would think to myself "u had to jack off that bad????"

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I wouldn't be okay with that... Like I'm right there why don't we just have sex instead of you masturbating?

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That piss me off, dude wake me and give me that dick

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I've walked into the living room to my SO doing it. It was late, he didn't want to wake me and he has needs. I don't think it's a big deal.

Is it weird for your SO to masturbate next to you while you're asleep or am I overreacting??

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