Dating for a month, sex and all but no hand holding?

Question

This may seem like a really dumb thing to ask about.

I mean, we're in our 30s. lol So I feel kinda silly...

Which is why I ask on here.

Well we been dating a little over month.

We have had sex a handful of times. We cuddle, hug and kiss.

But we never held hands. Well once. During sex, oddly enough.

I find myself wanting to hold his hand in the car or while walking someplace but for some reason I feel awkward to initiate it.

I have no idea what to think. Does he not like it? Is it to intimate of a thing for him? 
Does he not like me enough?

He just took me to meat his family tonight, so he has to like me.

Should I just go for the kill? Why is it so awkward?? I'm 30! I have held plenty of hands of the opposite sex.

What gives???

Answer

Maybe he's not a hand holders. Or maybe he feels the same. Hold his hand 🙂

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Me and my BF were like this in the beginning.. then one day, I was like you're not into hand holding, are you? He said he thought I wasn't into it so he didn't do it often. Moral of the story: communication is key. Just ask him and/or tell him that you would like to hold hands & wanna know if he's ok with that🙃

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Ask him

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My husband and I don't really hold hand. He's a bit taller then me so it's awkward. I do hold his arm though when we are out and about. Everyone is different but you should just grab his hand :)

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My partner and I rarely hold hands, maybe every now and then on a drive.. I find it awkward so it doesn't last long

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Maybe he's just not a hand holder. I know that seems like such a simple answer... but not everyone likes to hold hands.

Why don't you just tell him in an honest and adorable way that you want to hold his hand?

I find that an opportunity to open yourself up without self judgement is not only attractive, but ends up being the easier choice than stressing out.

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My hubby and i held hands all the time when we were dating, but we dont any more. I have gotten this thing over the years about holding hands and having them sweat. Its strange. We too are 30 lol things just change with age some times. Maybe he just isnt into PDA. Talk to him or just grab it some time while ur out and see what he does.

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Me and mine been together for years i hate holding hands

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https://m.mic.com/articles/110282/one-surprisingly-intimate-way-to-know-you-re-with-the-right-person

Dating for a month, sex and all but no hand holding?

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