wic is so pushy just to vent

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Let me start out I have lost 17 pounds and I am 17 weeks along so they are rude saying I need to gain weight my doctor has not been concerned he said I probably won't put on the pounds til my 3rd trimester where I am plus mama. Well I had a partial mastectomy in January of 16 they keep pushing supplement feeding the baby I can physically I had a form of mastitis in my left breast to cause a year of surgeries and ended up loosing all my ducts and glands and half my breast. I am so disheartened they make me feel like my choices are Wrong for the baby