Putting my pride completely down...

I have always been a prideful person. I am stubborn as all get out. If someone ever wanted to leave, I let them no hesitation, even when I was in the wrong. I have been separated for 4 months with a man I've known for 8 years and been with for 5- we have an 8 month old, too.  We are talking tonight and I have every intention of putting my pride aside because I know he is it for me. He is the love of my life and I honestly can't imagine living any more of my life without him. 
Any pointers?