Not ready yet....

I've just got out of a 2year long psychology, physical, emotional, sexual and financial abusive relationship.I'm going up against him in court soon (not for anything above but simple breaking a tablet of mine,the court is refusing to change him with any from 2014 although the incident which he was arrested for happened 01/01/2015) anyway.I'm not ready to day,nor will I be for awhile(because I'm finding it hard to trust people). (male)friends whom know of the situation believe I should just get over it and date them,(female) friends (who haven't been through it personally) just wonder why I never just left him sooner. But the problem that I'm having is that guys keep asking me out and although I would like someone to talk and vent to I do not want a relationship and would have thought that others would understand