Ive had a few miscarriages in the past, was told Id most likely never be able to carry a child, and finally Ive made it past 10w. Im now 21 weeks pregnant and again today, by the fifth or sixth person, I was told my baby should die. It hurts so bad because these people dont understand the pain of losing a child whether in utero or in real life. I havent stopped crying since they said it and i just really needed to vent..