So I see a lot of issues on here and in regular life in general that women get so offended about what other say they should do with their babies. I see it this way. As long as it's not hurtful to you or the child why not take it? It make helpmyou learn something you didn't know or it can help you learn exactly what not to do. Why is this such a big deal? Heck when our parents were kids the whole neighborhood resided each other's kids and it wasn't an issue.