mother in-law

Josie • Can't wait to meet my sweet Babygirl Brenlee grace 💓
So at this point I'm getting really aggravated with my SO mother, I am going in tomorrow night to get induced and as soon as she found out the date she text me and said so your going in Wednesday night at 10, I will meet y'all at the hospital. Like pretty much told me not even asked if it was alright if she came up there. So i replied back with well the only people coming up Wednesday is my mom and Dustin (that's my SO) because nothing will be happening until that following morning they are only going to be giving me medicine to help me sleep and thin  my cervix's and I have to have that in for 12 hours so they will start my meds for my contractions to start that following morning. Then she replies back with "well I'm coming anyways because I don't want any chance of missing anything" Keep in mind my SO feels the same he doesn't want anyone up there that night either including her because she was never there for him or raised him so now she is trying to make up for that with are daughter. "So I reply back with a attitude because that's disrespectful to me to tell me what your gonna do when this day isn't even about you and I say well you will not be back in the room so if you want to sit in the waiting room for 12 hours the be my guest but I'm not here to entertain anyone. She didn't reply and texted My SO how it's unfair how she not getting included and all kinds of bullshit so he told her the same thing and she got mad and said she wasn't gonna come up at all then. Like really ? Where we wrong for that ? For not wanting anyone up there that night so we could get some rest ? God I already know it's going to get bad with her and all I want to do is enjoy meeting my daughter.