I just had my first baby (he's 7 month) with the man that I thought loved me. After finding out some things, I'm sitting here waiting for him to fight for our family to stay together but is only asking me over and over" if we are going to stay together I need a answer asap" Can you believe that? The reason I can give him a answer right away is because I'm confused(crying while typing this) I'm in I want this to work, I want to be that family I never had but the fact that he is so plain about all this hurts even more. I have ZERO because I was a SAHM and lost contact with anyone but my family. I just need a friend right now!!!