No judgement please, I haven't been with anyone other than my husband in over 5 years, just found out I had this because of a  stupid rash on my lower back, went to the doc and they tested it,and it came back positive for HSV-2. I'm pretty upset about it as I was always careful, even with my previous boyfriends, but the doctor said I could have gotten it just by kissing or touching someone with a breakout. 

Thanks and sorry for the long post!