Handjobs/Head!!!??

Seren • 🌟LONDON/CARDIFF 🎤
Okay first a disclosure! Yes, I've had sex previously. No, I'm not embarrassed to ask this BUT do not post judgment or hate because I don't have time to get triggered lmao 😂😂
Okay, I think it's a weird question because having had sex people just assume you've given head or done handjobs but I haven't. And I recently found out my 26 yo friend hasn't either!
But my real question is actually how do you go about the friction side of it?? Like how does it feel or what's right for them??
I'd love to be on my knees and do a good job but I'm just nervous about being embarrassingly bad😩
Q1. When you're using your hand (is there something comparable to doing it?) like is it like a grip and 'tug' gently up and down, is it easy rotate your hand around it to cover more area? What does it feel like because I feel like I don't even know how to hold a penis 😂😂😂 
Ps, please help 😂😂