ear piercing

What are you thoughts on piercing the babies ears? I want to wait but my DH family said I need to do it early and it makes me mad because I don't want to do it while she's a baby. I didn't get mine done until I was older and it was like a big deal for me. I would rather make it special if she wants them done then assume she wants her ears pierced and I feel like that's unnecessary pain. But now if I don't do it they will feel like I'm being defiant. It's so annoying.