what's the hardest part of your TTC journey ?

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I want to join forces remember we are not alone in this journey other women may be facing the same struggle.

What are you most scared about when it comes to pregnancy ?

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A lot of it is difficult to deal with but for me sometimes it seems like   Everyone you know is pregnant(even ppl who don't want them) I personally know at least 3 ppl who have had one or more abortions in the time I have been trying. Everytime I hold a baby I want to cry. Every month I imagine myself with a big belly. I imagine the things that would be happening inside my body. I picture my babies face. I wonder why hasn't it happened..will it ever happen??? Will I ever see two lines?? Why can't that be me? I find myself saying.... "Please!! I want a baby... I need a baby!" Over and over. The scariest part is for HOPE to be completely gone!!! And through all the thoughts I torture myself with hope is something that gets harder and harder to hold onto as each month slowly turns into another year.

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Hardest part is to see negative every month but god will bless us on right time Just pray 😇

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I am scared that we will never get that bfp. Or that after so long of ttc my hubby will lose interest since I can't seem to give him a child.

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The hardest part for me is my own self-criticism. I'm constantly feeling that it's my fault and I'm not normal and beating myself up for being unable to give my husband what we want more than anything. Realistically I know that this can happen to anyone and it does not make me a bad person but it doesn't help the knock this whole thing has had on my confidence 🙁

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The hardest part currently is that I have only Glow as support. We decided we are staying quiet about TTC. Since my husband had a vasectomy reversal a few months back, that nobody knows about. We didn't want people continuously asking if it worked yet. It would only upset me... so having nobody besides Glow to share my frustrations with, is definitely the hardest part.

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The hardest part about trying to conceive is understanding that I could have another miscarriage. I wish I would have not been lied to about how wonderful and glamorous TTC is or that it is easy. It's so hard. It can take forever and unfortunately you can be successful but still have a miscarriage. 😢

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After 3 miscarriages over the past 1.5 years (10wks, 6wks, 11wks), the hardest part for me is definitely letting go of the past and feeling happy and confident in our very very new pregnancy.
I don't even know how to tell my husband about our news, because his reaction will make it harder for me. He's been through so much that he can't let himself get excited about it either. He used to be the positive one in our relationship. But when it comes to this, positive thoughts are a thing of the past.

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Miscarrying again. I miscarried Christmas 2016 at 12weeks. I miss my baby every day & I just want my rainbow but afraid of another loss. That was my first pregnancy after trying over a year

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I have a lot of back issues and I'm terrified that I'm gunna end up out of work while pregnant because of it. I'm scared that if I eat something wrong or do something wrong I'll hurt my baby. TTC and the prospect of being pregnant is scary but at the same time, I can't wait! This is a great thread btw!

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My most hard part is hearing how my Cousin who is mixed in with bad people was able to get his girl of not even a year pregnant, how my aunt and uncle who didn't want kids and have gambling issues are also having a baby , how my friend got this girl who has a drug problem pregnant and is scared to tell her fam and friends because she has a problem with drugs .. I think that's my hardest part is watching everyone else around me have kids and literally "are just accepting it" sucks and breaks me with jealousy... it's so wrong that I feel such negativity but man oh man ok now I'm not alone in this :(

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