So I like this guy I went to high school with. He's so sweet funny and I love talking to him on the phone. I havent seen him in almost 5 yrs. Anyways he recently got fired from his job and currently doesnt have a car because it broke down. He lives with parents. I've been helping him with job hunting. I have a child who is almost 2 and its an girl. I'm on an on going mental battle lately because I like him so much and want to be with him that I cant stand it. But the other half of me is Telling me that that I shouldn't be with him cause he doesnt have a job or car and lives with his parents. Then my mom says Im wasting my time on him because he has no ambition or goals and life. And doesnt even have a job! She asks me what can he do for me etc.. And part of me feels like shes right and the other half of me wants him so bad and i like him. Im 22. Please help. I really just need some advice and opinions.