😰 HIGH BP ???

Mama
I have high bp and sometimes things will make me upset or panic or worry. My heart starts beating fast and I can't help it ONLY if someone takes the sensitivity out of my body or if I really don't care about something. People keep blaming me for raising my blood pressure it's not fair. I am 30 weeks pregnant and they will make me upset but then say I'm the one raising my own blood pressure. Am I in the right or wrong ?