So I was super excited to get married. I couldn't wait for our wedding day. It was going to be me, him, and our parents on the beach. That was it. We didn't want a big fancy anything; we just wanted peaceful and small. It was going to be romantic. The entire point was no stress on us, since we're having a baby in 2 weeks and we're getting married next weekend and it's a lot all at once. And now it's just as stressful as it would be planning the huge freaking wedding.

His side of the family is outraged that they wouldn't be able to come, and we're acting 'crazy and ridiculous' for not inviting them. My mom called me and asked in FRONT OF my grandmother if she could come with her, so when I said no, now my mom doesn't want to come at all.

Friends are hurt that we didn't invite them.

And the crazy thing is we told all of them that next year we will be renewing our vows and having the big wedding! We just want to be married now and I don't want a huge wedding when I'm 9 months pregnant and we're financially stressed, and it's a time crunch. I want to do it right.

Now I don't know what to do. Part of me just wants to forget it and run to the courthouse. But I really really wanted my small beach ceremony. It hurts that people are ruining that.

Any ideas on what to do?