So i was really surprised about how many comments I've gotten. Thanks ladies. I told him how he was being controlling and he sent me another message explaining what he actually meant. He never says mean things just to hurt me.

Oh and he wasn't trying to say I'm his little bitch. I said to him "I'm not your bitch." I guess its his way of saying he wouldnt treat me that way

For all you guys that are asking, no i didn't dump him. But i did flip out about the way he was wording things. We did talk on the phone then and he actually really wasnt trying to be mean. I do tend to bitch at him sometimes and no that's not just an excuse, i aint perfect he aint perfect. I understand what most of yall are saying and I'm still reading and taking consideration so thanks. I know it's hard to understand his communication, but he's trying to say "he doesn't just say mean shit out of the blue". We've actually vowed never to talk about serious stuff over text after this. And sometimes i do give him a hard time, there's just so much negativity in these comments. I can't handle it. I know these messages may seem negative to you, but he wasnt trying to be.