Is anyone else it there totally stressing over how you're going to make ends meet once baby comes and the childcare costs sets in? I know we will work through it but it's such an overwhelming feeling. We already live paycheck to paycheck, we both make decent money but we also have a lot of expenses. I get overwhelmed when I try to sort through ways to save money. I've even considered extreme couponing but don't have the time to dedicate to it. We are so happy to be having our first child and I certainly didn't want to go through life not having one because we live paycheck to paycheck.