Have you ever been ghosted?

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I got ghosted and it was the worst. I hate being left with the feeling that I did something wrong. Share your thoughts and stories ladies.

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Simply move on they don't care about you

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Okay I've ghosted. I admit it and you who have been ghosted on can get mad or whatever but let me explain. The guy I was seeing was manipulative and turned me into someone I didn't like. He was needy, pathetic, never listened to me, emotionally abused me, and after talking shit about my family and telling me I shouldn't get another piercing because he doesn't like it I just blocked him. It was hard even though he was so terrible, but I stuck with it. I refused to see him and I refused to talk to him. He tried contacting me other ways many times, but I ignored them all. It's been three years and I look back now and I could have said goodbye at least but it was just mid-conversation I just left. I was done. Honestly, not proud of ghosting in that situation, but I know it was the way I was going to get out:p

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My ex disappeared for two weeks. It was weird because we usually talked constantly. We had been dating quite a while and he was very mych in love with me. I was worried sick that somethung bad had happened. It turned out that his roommate kicked him out and wouldn't let him get his stuff, including the phone. He moved in with his friend and started getting into drugs and I dropped him.

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Idk if this counts but i was dating this guy not seriously and he started saying he was having problems, like his friend got into a car accident, his gramma's health was bad. But then when he took like a week to answer my texts/messages and then not at all, i said hey theres some stuff you left at my house, if you want to pick it up. We weren't bf/gf and i wasnt interested in dating him seriously anyway. He responded fairly quickly then. We went out and he was acting normal, we didn't talk about him not answering my texts. He didn't talk to me after though and didn't delete the videos/pictures he took of me from his social media even after he started officially dating someone. It stung a lot that he couldn't really be upfront with me. Like i have no idea what it was that made him just ignore me. If it's bc he found that girl, he didn't have to confuse me so much. He never deleted me from social media but when i got a boyfriend later, my bf didn't like him so he deleted him from my social media without me knowing. Fast forward a few years, I'm broken up with the bf and 1st guy snapchats me a board game I've been wanting to play and during our friendship/relationship (?) and he invited me to his house where he was hosting a group game thing. I go, i leave at the end of the night, real proud i didn't do anything dumb. Couple days later he texts me (i had deleted his number) basically saying he had wanted to ask me to stay the night and he wanted me to come over and cuddle with him all night (like asking me what time i work the next morning, saying he wouldn't make me leave when he goes to work bc he gets up earlier, i would just lock up behind me). I asked him a bunch of questions bc i couldn't tell if he was serious and stuff. Most surprisingly, he asked me why i was refusing LOL i don't need that kinda guy in my life. Plus i had other options. Recently he tried to add me on ig like ?? I don't date much so its weird to me, but apparently this is how a lot of guys act?

Have you ever been ghosted?

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