Rainbow Moms

I could use some helpful suggestions and talk from the rainbow moms. I'm 16w right now and this is my 3rd pregnancy in a year. We are currently dealing with an extremely insensitive friend. It comes at an very bad time since St. Pats was our previous due date and I'm struggling trying to be happy pregnant. How are you ladies dealing with people being insensitive during this time? How are you coping with being pregnant again after a loss and trying to be happy (not just scared)? Any other advice?