did this happen to you

li

I really think i could be pregnant but im so confused. Af was supposed to be here the 8th but still a no show, so this is day 3 of no af. I just checked my cervix and its very high (i dont know about soft or open im not too good at it) i took a hpt yesterday and it said negative. Has this happened to anyone and then got a bfp later on?