Help please. Jerk boyfriend?

My boyfriend was being an jerk last night I literally cried myself to sleep and this morning he's been saying basically if I don't have sex with him we aren't going on a trip we've veen planning. We were supposed to get our tickets today. I tried like playing it off and saying lets see how the day goes maybe you can get lucky tonight and he was like I'll make sure we have a good day if I get lucky right now. I don't want to. And I don't appreciate him treating me like this is normal. He doesn't understand? Am I wrong here? I might show him this so he doesn't think it's just me being crazy.

I talked to him. He apologized but doesn't seem too sorry. Saying it sounds bogus. But he doesn't want to go anymore anyway. At this point I'm over it. He's been my first everything and we live together so it's hard. Idk how to get out of this at the moment. Why did this have to happen so late in the relationship? We've been together for years. It hurts and I feel stuck.