Unfair frustration

I'm beyond frustrated and I feel like I'm not allowed to be. 
My boyfriend hates his job and in turn is stressed out so he barely touches me. 
I understand he's unhappy but he went to work once this week. You would think that would help but every time I try something he pushes me away. 
I'm so pissed off about it 
I'm also beyond sexually frustrated and masturbating doesn't help.
It's so stupid. I'm so upset I just cry on the couch at night while he's asleep 
We've talked about it and like I said he's just stressed. I don't know what to do I how to fix it