Has anyone tried this non-orgasming sexual technique with their partners? A bit like tantra I think. My boyfriend is very sensitive (more so than me which is saying something for someone with a history of sexual trauma) and struggles with the whole performance side of sex and all the fast paced activity makes him anxious and overwhelmed considering he's had a full week at work. He gets horny a lot around me, so that's not the issue. It's just when it gets down to it he's worried it'll be too much for him to handle mentally(he struggles with overstimulation). So I remembered the technique of Karezza I'd learned once and maybe that might be a much better way to come at it. From what I gather it's slow and relaxing and loving and affectionate.. All the things my boyfriend is with me. I was thinking about mentioning it to him (not now because we are taking a sex break, but afterwards when we try again)... What are your thoughts? Any of you ever tried it?