letting go of my mother .

Ja
So recently my mother & I got into it over a situation she doesn't even know the full story on and had nothing do with her or effect her in away but for a week she stopped talking to me , she told me she doesn't want me in her life , called me a failure and disappointment, & also drove past and almost left me downtown because she had adittude . We don't get along we are much alike to extent. It's a lot deeper then just this that has made me break. I move back to the states next year and I don't want to tell her where I'm going or when . She is taking to me know but I'm just not here for it . I need advice .