Fear of Wedding Going Wrong??

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Hi ladies! So I'm planning my wedding for November 4, 2017. It's a relatively short engagement as we got engaged November 11, 2016. But as I plan, and I love everything I've picked.. I'm terrified it won't look good all together and that it will turn out and look like someone just threw it all together. I want it to be well placed and put together, and I just want it to flow together. Nobody has said anything about it not going together but I'm afraid they don't because they don't want to hurt my feelings. My coordinator has told me not to worry, that it will go together and be beautiful. I'm just so worried! All I want is to say I do to the man I love, and a beautiful party to celebrate about it! (I hope that doesn't sound bratty!!) my question is, did any of you all have this fear?? What did you do about it? (Please no hate, I'm just a worrier, looking for some advice.)

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My husband and I got married last August and we were planning on have a beautiful outdoor wedding. It was suppose to be sunny with a slight wind, we were suppose to get married under this big maple tree. The morning of our wedding we had to come up with new plans fast becuSe the rain was coming down from all angles and wasn't planning on stopping  anytime soon. I remember thinking. F*ck it. We only have one day to make it our own and no matter what Mother Nature was going to throw at us it wasn't going to stop us from getting married... So our bus leaked (on me) on the way there, the venue leaked and we had to stuff all the guest inside the reception room becuSe the rain wouldn't stop. Nothing went as planned but you know what, it didn't stop us from having the time of our lives and our guests said the same. We even took our pictures out in the rain, totally unprepared. After it was all over I was excited to tell people about the things hat went wrong becuSe it was our story, it was unique and we were proud to tell it.

So no matter what the day throws at you just make the best of it. No matter how many people tell you it will al work out its natural to feel this way but I promise you once it's all over you will look back and think why did i stress about that. At the end of the day you are marrying your love with all the people that love and support you by your side. They're going to love the music,!the decorations and every other little detail that went into making your wedding beautiful and unique. The day/night goes by fast so make sure you make every second of every moment count. Congrats and all the best!

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My wedding is Sunday and I'm terrified something will go wrong!!!

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I just got married in November and absolutely nothing went wrong! That i know of anyways lol. I didn't stress too much but I was worried it wouldn't all look good. Pinterest helped a ton. And then during the reception pretty much everyone told me how amazing it looked and how pretty it was. It was the best day ever! Don't focus too much about the little stuff, the most important part is your partner and the fact you are getting married! Congrats!

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Getting married this august and I have the same fear! I believe it's a normal fear though, just don't think like that because it will al be perfect!

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I'm not married but my parents wedding did have some bumps. My mum always says that something goes wrong at a wedding but 99% of the time the only one that notices is the bride or it makes for a great story later on. At my parents wedding her veil fell off during the ceremony. But at the reception everyone kept asking how she managed to have it fall at that exact moment because it looked so perfect. I've seen their wedding video and it really does look planned. Their wedding cake also started falling over- slowly but it looked like the leaning tower of cake. But they just quickly jumped to cutting the cake and it was fine. Now my family just laughs about it. My parents loved their wedding and it was beautiful even with a couple bumps. So try to stay calm because chances are even if things don't go 100% perfect your wedding will very very very likely be beautiful!

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Make a vision board so you can see it come all together.. Trust me, it works

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Speaking from experience, you'll be the only one who notices. My wedding was TERRIBLE! everything was fucked up. My dinner was wrong, flowers,linens, my mini cheesecakes, music during dinner. I mean EVERYTHING. And the only one ms who noticed were me and my mom and sister. Now I look back and just laugh about it but I spent my wedding night in tears from everyone fuck ups but everyone still said it was a beautiful wedding and it looked amazing. Only we know the truth! So relax and try and enjoy your day. It'll be beautiful!!

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I was a nervous wreck I had nightmares for months! It's normal, there's a lot of pressure. Honestly I planned everything and still a bunch of crap went wrong lol but I don't even care now still one of the greatest days of my life. It'll be great 😊

Fear of Wedding Going Wrong??

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