giving but not receiving

Anyone else's S/O not wanting to give oral sex but thinks they should receive it all the damn time!! My husband use to go down on me but for some reason the last 3/4 years he just hasn't and now he said he shouldn't have to go down on me and I should just please him since he works so hard every day (that's only 3/4 times a week) and cuz in just a stay at home mom ( this is all his word on what he told me) I shouldn't need to be pleased as much but yet we only have sex 2/3 times a month and he ALWAYS want me to suck his d*ck always and last time I told him no oral is a 2 way street to need to give in order to receive he threw a big hissy fit and got all pissed off and left and went to the bar then to a friends house for the night. Am I wrong for what I said?!? Just I would like to be pleased too.