at first I thought I'm not normal

I love my husband and he loves me, but the problem is I only felt orgasme with him 3 or 4 times and I know him since 2012, he doesn't like to lick down there (tmi) he did it only a couple times, I always tell him why you don't do it, and he said I can't wait to have it inside and he never do it, what can I do? 😢 I really want to have fun during sex, it's hurtful to masturbate by myself while I'm married.