what would you do?

Question

If you were in an abusive relationship, and you are pregnant and put a restraining on the father of your unborn child, would you allow him at the birth or even tell him you had birth? Or don't say anything at all?

Answer

You cannot allow him at the birth because the restraining order works both ways. You both can't be near one another.
If you violate the order it becomes invalid.
He's an abusive pos so he lost his right to be there for the birth when he got so violent and scary that a judge agreed to place a restraining order against him

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I would give birth surrounded by my family. I wouldn't mention anything to him or his family. Like others said, it will violate the order and you need to protect yourself. File for child support once the baby is born and move on with your life!

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I think you should be in a calming environment when giving birth . You don't need the added stress of his abusive reminders. Let him know at your own time when you gave birth .

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No, I was a domestic violence program director for 10 years before having my second son, if you allow him near you he can go to the courts, the judge will likely lift the restraining order and be hesitant to reissue one even if he acts up again. The courts have determined that he is a potential danger and you need the law to protect you, even if he's 'being nice' at the moment you can't let him near you.

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in any way if he breaks that restraining he will get in bigger trouble. i think you know what to do. protect your baby & yourself. even though he is the father he's abusive and has a restraining against him.

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