Can your heart be large enough for two? Please comment advice below 😭

Aly

I met this guy at the end of September and we hit it off. We have been talking this entire time up until December when we took a break from one another. Around the end of January we got back in contact and I'm really falling for him. He has been nothing but a gentleman and every day that we share together, whether we go out on a date or stay at home, it's simply amazing. Although we do things as a couple he hasn't officially asked me out yet. I'm introduced as his "girl" to his family and friends. I don't mind this, but at the same time I wish he asked me. You know? Okay so as of February 23rd a new guy has come into my life. I've always seen him around but never cared to get to know him. That's only because he dated my friend. Now, I know what you're thinking:

"this girl is crazy, she's into her friend's ex boyfriend?? Whaaat.."

When he first messaged me, I was like "oh no buddy you are not the one for me!" I found him unattractive, and I didn't exactly like his sense of style. The first week of messaging back and fourth was purely friendly. Then the flirting came along and once I actually got to know him, that was that. I fell for him. We just clicked and that's very rare to me. I met him in person on Sunday. We met up at the mall and boy, did he look cute. This is all just so refreshing and new that I'm wanting more of it. More of this vibe. He video chats me at random he even called me yesterday morning and totally seen my bed head 🤕 of course things are still premature and there's so much we have to get to know about one another, but I'm not sure what to do. I'm stuck between the two. Spring break is next month and I've decided to ask this guy to come camping with me and my friends. Maybe sharing a couple days with him in person will help give me a clearer mind.

What are your thoughts? Feel free to ask questions 😩