Bf doesnt want sex

He says he's still attracted to me, and that he isnt cheating, but the last few months getting sex from my boyfriend, is harder than pulling teeth. He always has some type of excuse, he's tired from work, its too late at night (after he avoids coming to bed for hours) or just plain no. Ive tried EVERYTHING short of starting it myself(which i cant do because he wont let me) Today after my shower, i sent him racy pics, he said he never got them (which is a lie), i tried again and oiled my body up real nice, wrapped a towel around me and laid in bed. He decided he needed to vaccum 😒😒. After we went to lunch, i told him flat out i was horny and wanted sex, his answer was "have fun with that" im so OVER having to beg for sex, any ideas on what I can do ladies? I love him but i have needs to and there is only so much a vibrator can do.