Just read a post about paternity leave..

I just read a post about paternity leave today and it seems like most men do not get any leave at all. I am lucky that my husband gets 4 months paid paternity leave. I am curious to know how some of you will manage if your husband does not get leave? This is our first pregnancy so I can't imagine not having him home (we live 3 hours away from family).. idk how I would do it all by myself. Do most of you plan on having family help out?