Has TTC hurt your sexual relationship?

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Honestly sex has started to feel like a chore rather than a special moment of human connection on many levels. It's made us bicker and despise sex. We have sex during my fertile window and then are never in the mood after.

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It did for a little while. We just had to make sex for fun more of a priority and be a bit more spontaneous 😊

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Not at all, we have sex all the time.  We both really want a baby, and my husband doesn't understand that women literally have like 5 days out of the month to get pregnant, so he's constantly trying to "get me pregnant" lol.  I've tried to explain it to him, he still doesn't get it, which is fine by me lol.

Maybe yall need to mix it up a bit and try something new to make it "fun" again!

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We did get to a point where we were in a slump for a bit and it did feel that way unfortunately.

But when we found out we were pregnant we snapped out of it lol

I think it is important to keep thing fun and interesting because trust me it ready is stressful when it feels like a chore

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We only have sex probably once when it's not in the fertile window. I am finding it thrilling so far, but once the fertile week is up, we kind of go into hibernation mode for 2-3 weeks. Honestly, we don't have super high libidos. Don't worry if you are too tired during non peak times, and if you only bd every other day of fertile week, oh well.  Try to make it fun, we make a lot of jokes and tease during that week, and it rakes the stress off.

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No, not at all. We have as much sex as ever and we are just trying to relax and enjoy the journey. It'll happen when or if it happens. If it doesn't, we'll just adopt sooner. No worries.

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We make a POINT to have 'fun sex' when I'm not fertile.. It's a MUST!! One of you are going to have to bring it up and discuss ways to improve your sex life. I know how tiring it can be, BUT definitely don't ruin your marriage by trying to conceive.

Has TTC hurt your sexual relationship?

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