Should I lose my virginity?

Question

If I do, 
1. What is it supposed to look like down there
2. Do condoms actually work
3. Will it hurt
4. How likely am I to get pregnant or std's from one time 
Please help?

Answer

Don't lose your virginity for the sake of it. Wait for the right person or you'll regret it. Most girls I know have their 🐱 shaved or Lasered, otherwise I would just keep it tidy I guess? I have been on the pill and didn't like it, now I've been using condoms with my boyfriend every time and I haven't got pregnant yet lol.. For me, when I lost my virginity it hurt and I bled a little bit. It wasn't enjoyable for me the first time. Make sure you are really turned on first and he does a lot of foreplay on you. If you do it with the right person and use protection you shouldn't get an STD.

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You need to educate yourself before you think of having sex.

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Not yet. What do you mean what is it supposed to look like down there? You mean a penis? Condoms work when you put them on correctly. Your chance of getting an STI from having unprotected is high enough to not do it. Same with pregnancy.

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It ain't worth losing it if it ain't real love atleast. You can get herpes even if you use a condom. You can get HPV too. HPV can lead to cancer so if you become sexually active it's important to get your cervical examined for HPV even if you're using condoms. The condom can break and you can end up pregnant or with genital herpes which 1 out 5 guys I believe have genital herpes. Herpes can take years to show up and later on when you do find a guy you love and you end up with an std it can add stress where partners think one cheated. If the bond ain't strong it could hurt because you won't be lubricated enough. If the guy doesn't care about your feelings and is just in the relationship trying to see how far you will let him go then let him go because he's probably just trying to find excuses to finally get laid. I know girls who have ended up pregnant as well or worried about being pregnant where they don't eat at all. It's sort of like when you skip school and you're just waiting for the phone to ring so you can pick it up and then you regret skipping lol well I finally lost my virginity at 22 so looking back I think I saved myself a lot of mess. So.. are you ready to have sex?:)

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1. It's not supposed to "look" like anything. 
2. Condoms can and can't work. They work 99% of the time. Sometimes the break or there's a hole in it.
3.if he actually pops your cherry, yes it will hurt a little bit
4. Depending if he's slept with a bunch of girls and had sex with them without protection, stds are more than likely to occur unless he took medicine to get it to go away. You can get pregnant if you are using any type of birth control like condoms or the pill. There's always a chance of getting pregnant.

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I lost my virginity to my first kiss when I was 18. It was worth it for me and we're still together 2 years later. Despite what you hear, it really doesnt hurt that bad, but it all depends on who you are. USE A CONDOM. I dont care if he's good at pulling out. Dont risk it. Just be careful. Read up on how to use a condom so you do it right. Most importantly, do it when you are confortable. It is your body, you don't want to regret it later. You can say no. It doesnt matter if he has his pants down and us about to stick it in. If you have second thoughts, wait. (:

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