My man masturbates more than we have sex and it is driving me to want a divorce. I've tried everything possible, including sexy outfits, initiating sex, not being too aggressive. All of the above! Yes, I've tried it. He watches loads of porn that he always lies to me about, that he's not watching it.  Need less to say, he erases his history on his iPad mini, but doesn't realize that it stays in the advance settings under safari, which I check often. And makes me very upset. He will turn me down for sex, but then jerks off later on or the next morning. He jerks off and throws the cum saturated tissues in the kitchen trash. What the hell??! Am I chopped liver??