BJ or not to BJ?

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My bf and I have been going out for 3 months and have sex almost everyday we get to see each other (usually in my car because we both live with our parents or college roommates). I always go down on him but he has never ATTEMPTED to go down on me. Last session he asked me to give him a BJ and I said I won't go down on him anymore until he goes down on me. Am I being too harsh on him?

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That's not harsh that's so fair

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He needs to return the favor and if he doesn't want to then he definitely doesn't need to be asking you for head. Plain and simple.

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No that's fair u should both get what you want.

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My perspective is it's a lot easier to give a BJ than to go down on a woman. I mean, you can give a BJ anywhere but to give a woman good head it has to be just right (at least it does for me to get anything out of it.) so I give my bf Bj's all the time and he goes down on me anytime we have a good time/place for it. But I would still do it even if he didn't want to go down on me - I enjoy it 😜

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Oh my god!This is so unfair. He needs to get over this or the resentment will build up! You have needs too. No excuses now. Teach him.

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No you're not being too harsh. Fuck him man. If he doesn't go down on you then there's something wrong with him

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It's not harsh at all. If you're his first girl then he might not be quite ready yet. 
I've been dating my bf for 9 months today (lol) and the closest he's done to going down on me is licking me once. But he's also very shy unless he's stoned lol. 
Just talk to him about going down on you

BJ or not to BJ?

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