I recently went through a miscarriage and my boyfriend wants to try again in May/June. I want to try again but I feel like the smart thing to do is wait until at least one of us makes better money . He works 50 hours and I work 40 hours and we both make decent money. We both are saving for a house too. A part of me is saying this will make us happy but then I'm like well maybe we should wait so my baby can have really nice things even though our families would spoil our baby .