mixed feelings

I've been dating my boyfriend for four years and things have always been a little rocky. The thing is in the political climate and everything that's going on the fact that he's white has put a lot of pressure on me. I feel like sometimes the dynamic of our relationship is off because I get so angry at white men as a construct and the way they've oppressed me and my people for so long. I know he's not to blame for historical or even present day problems but when I get mad at him for other things it sometimes ends up getting bigger because of this. I know I love him but do you think it's possible for us to ever really work out with this in the way.